Question 007 · MONEY + FRIENDSHIP

HOW MANY EXPENSIVEFRIENDSHIP EVENTS CAN YOUDECLINE BEFORE YOU BECOMEA “BAD FRIEND”?

Your friend has said no to the trip, the birthday dinner and the wedding weekend — because of money.

At what point, if ever, do you take it personally?

Status: You Tell Us

The Question

Friendship, money, generosity and belonging collide in a way that reveals what adults privately count as showing up.

You Told Us

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The Receipts

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Where It Gets Messy

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The Niitty Verdict

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What to Actually Do

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What We Still Don't Know

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