The Question
Autonomy, pleasure, status and pressure collide here. The private answer can differ sharply from the public language of self-care.
You Told Us
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The Receipts
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Where It Gets Messy
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The Niitty Verdict
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What to Actually Do
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What We Still Don't Know
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