Question 002 · FRIENDSHIP

WHEN SHOULD YOU TELLA FRIEND YOU AREWORRIED ABOUT THEIRRELATIONSHIP?

Someone asked us how soon is too soon to tell a very-in-love friend they're seeing red flags.

When do you say something — and how do you know it's a real concern, not just that you don't like their partner?

Status: You Tell Us

The Question

This question came straight from the audience, and it doesn't have an easy yes-or-no answer. Protecting the friendship, respecting a friend's autonomy, and still saying something when the concern gets serious can all be true at once.

You Told Us

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The Receipts

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Where It Gets Messy

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The Niitty Verdict

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What to Actually Do

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What We Still Don't Know

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